The first one and the first half of the second one were OK, though the violence is the point of them. Slapsticky but red & sticky too, so MrsD made a good call on her own terms. I rarely go to the cinema now - just the blockbusters and the deeply arthouse. I just Jim most movies as soon as the decent rips appear and watch them trouserless, in drink.
Spiderman had random monsters smashing up tourist-packed tourist places, with whole edifices and house-sized chunks of stone flying around like a good old-fashioned carpet bombing (of which we've seen plenty of real footage in the Vietnam series) -- but there was no blood! Marvel -ous.