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From: 99% of gargoyles look like (MR_BASTARD)
15 May 2015 12:29
To: Queeg 500 (JESUSONEEZ)
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So sorry to hear that
:(
Good luck with the CVS!
{{{JOE & family}}}
EDITED: 15 May 2015 12:30 by MR_BASTARD
From: ANT_THOMAS
15 May 2015 12:33
To: Queeg 500 (JESUSONEEZ)
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Sounds like an awful situation, hope everything goes to plan.
Not that I have kids so can't really comment about being in a similar situation but I think the way I see it is that at least you are having the tests done now and you'll be in a position to make an informed decision early on with all the information, rather than things being a huge shock further down the line.
From: Queeg 500 (JESUSONEEZ)
15 May 2015 13:10
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We should get results quite quickly truth be told, but then there's no such thing as quick in these situations. We should know one way or the other (re: the syndromes) before the bank holiday weekend.
Much thumb twiddling.
From: Serg (NUKKLEAR)
15 May 2015 15:03
To: Queeg 500 (JESUSONEEZ)
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Really sorry to hear, hope it turns out to be nothing
:(
It especially hits home because we also haven't had any kids yet and we're both over 30..
From: graphitone
15 May 2015 15:03
To: Queeg 500 (JESUSONEEZ)
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Having a baby is stressful enough, without worrying about specifics like this.
I don't know what to say without sounding patronising or insincere.
With our two, my neuroses went into overdrive worrying whether or not they'd be healthy babies. And I'm a worrier anyway. When Clare was pregnant with the second one there was a spate of adverts for a deaf/blind child charity and I couldn't shake the empathy I'd have for a child in that situation, and the worry it'd happen to ours.The only thing that happened during the pregnancies was that William was breach for a bit and Stephen was fine all the way through up until the birth when they found he had the cord wrapped around his neck... they had to wheel in a resus trolley and we went from everything's fine to absolute panic in seconds. So even if you're told everything's ok, strange stuff can happen. That's probably not very reassuring - sorry....
:-S
You can't control/change anything any more than you can change the weather. I've learned that worrying about stuff is a pretty crap way to be all the time and have stopped myself doing it. You've just got to hope it works out ok.
Hope it all works out ok!
:-)
From: Queeg 500 (JESUSONEEZ)
15 May 2015 15:18
To: Serg (NUKKLEAR)
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We had our first at the ripe old ages of 35 and that was a breeze (well...apart from Emma spending the first 12 weeks with her head in the toilet bowl in between pickled gherkin cravings).
We kept busy yesterday after leaving the hospital (after the obligatory 'tell our parents' visits). Ate lunch out at our favourite middle-of-nowhere pub, went to a nursery and bought a load of garden stuff, ate cake and got back in time to pick up our girl from nursery...obviously she kept us busy until bed-time.
Then we watched Interstellar and went to bed.
So yeah, kept busy. Lots to do over the weekend so there won't be too much time to 'think' about things that don't need to be thought about until the results come through which is just how I want it at the moment.
From: koswix
15 May 2015 19:35
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Don't really know what to say, so I'll just say this:
(hug)
From: milko
15 May 2015 21:31
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I remember the nerves we had over a far less dramatic scan.
Best wishes mate, I hope it all works out for you.
From: Wattsy (SLAYERPUNX)
17 May 2015 21:09
To: Queeg 500 (JESUSONEEZ)
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Sorry to hear that mate. Getting news like that is horrible, we also had an anomaly in the scan with our new one that is still waiting to be checked out. The waiting is the worst.
I have no offers of advice other than carry on life as normal.
Massive Hug to you both.
From: fixrman
17 May 2015 21:26
To: graphitone
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The other side of things is, doctors are sometimes wrong. There is a baby named Hope at CHOP and she was expected to live for three hours at most after birth. She is now nearly a month old and may soon be breathing on her own.